Which nappies? 

My disposable nappy experience

When my daughter was first born I put her in Pampers sensitive newborn nappies. I didn’t really think I had much choice in what nappies she should wear and being a first time mum, I didn’t have a clue. Pampers are a well known brand and so I just went on the presumption that if a lot of people use them, then they must be the best, right?

I swapped to Asdas little angels a couple of months in as it was becoming too costly to buy Pampers. I found that they were not as absorbent and my daughter had a few leaks when using them. We also tried Huggies for a while which were ok but they didn’t seem as good a fit, so I went straight back to Pampers and started using the baby dry ones as she got bigger.

I’ve heard a lot of good things about the Aldi own brand nappies but I don’t have a local store near me so I’ve never been able to try them. I did however swap from Pampers to Chicco nappies which were on offer at boots for buy one get one free for £7.99 (42 nappies per pack for midi size). At first Maysie got a slight bit of nappy rash because she wasn’t used to this brand, but after a few wears and blobs of bepanthen, they seemed to serve just as well as the Pampers.

I recently saw some mums posting on Facebook about cloth nappies. So I did a bit of research and was astounded that new mums aren’t informed of the benefits of using cloth instead of disposables. Here are a few things I found out:

  • Cloth nappies save you money in the long term. Disposables will cost you about £800-£1000 per baby. Cloth will cost you between £100-£300.
  • They look nicer
  • You can use them from newborn to 3 years
  • They are especially great for sensitive skin and those prone to nappy rash as they are chemical free. You’re so careful on what lotions and potions you put on your baby but you don’t think about the chemicals in disposable nappies!  
  • Better for the environment. It takes 500 years or more (we don’t actually know exactly how long) for a disposable nappy to biodegrade – this means if King Henry the 8th wore disposable nappies they might still be around today, ewwww!

I was disappointed to only discover the benefits of using cloth instead of disposable when my daughter was already 8 months old. So I had to write this to share with expectant new mums.

My cloth nappy experience

 I contacted my local green group on Facebook and they put me in touch with a nappy library. I visited a lovely lady who showed me a range of different cloth nappies. I purchased a second hand kit from eBay of Charlie and Banana cloth nappies (pictured below). The Charlie and Banana ones were best suited to my little girl as she is quite petite and I liked the fact that they had a sizeable elastic side which can be adjusted like a bra strap.

 

I first started to just use one a day for 3 days to get used to fitting them. After a few days I became more confident using them and put them on her for a whole day. We have now been using them during the day for about a week and I couldn’t be more pleased. I literally shake the nappy over the bin then put into a laundry bag to wash when needed. I am washing them about once every two days as I only have 12 nappies and I was recommended to buy around 30. We haven’t tried using cloth at night time yet (using Chicco disposables still) as my daughter can be in a nappy for around 12 hours at night, but once I have been using them during the day for around a month I will give it a go and update my blog.

 If you are considering using cloth get in touch with your local nappy library. There are also some great Facebook groups for cloth nappies. 

Food at 8 and a half months

I know a lot of parents wonder what other mums feed their babies, so I thought I’d share with everyone what I like to give Maysie. At the moment she is teething so she isn’t eating as much and everyday is different. Here are some things I usually offer her. She has three meals a day and I may offer her a snack in between. 

Breakfast: Cow & Gate multigrain banana porridge, Heinz blueberry porridge or Ella’s kitchen mango or banana yoghurt pot

  
Lunch: A Heinz powder dinner (one or two bowls) a fruit custard pot or an Ella’s kitchen yogurt -see above pic for the yoghurt

  
  
Dinner: Boiled and mashed veg and chicken (any leftovers from previous meals I put in pots and freeze them) I use the tommee tippee blender. If I have run out of blended food or if I  am on the go I will give her an Ella’s kitchen dinner pouch. She then has a Hipp cocoa and vanilla dessert or a Heinz fruit pot and a Heinz cocoa biscotti (she has tried the other flavour biscottis but chocolate is her favourite by far 😋).

  
  
  

Snacks: What I offer her for snacks in between meals or for extra tasting and stimulation

  •  Chopped bannana or pear pieces
  • Chopped and boiled vegetable pieces
  • Boiled pasta drained (spaghetti is the best)
  • Toast with butter
  • Bread with a little Nutella 
  • Boiled runny egg with bread
  • Fruit purée in boiled water to make a juice
  • Fresh lemon
  • Ripe avocado pieces 
  • Bickiepegs 

Jobless children

  
Do you feel that as a child, you were denied the fundamental knowledge about job life beyond school? 

I do and so do many others. False ideologies are instilled in children about education. Most school children believe that if they attend university they some how are entitled to their dream job (even if they aren’t sure what that job is yet). This is because our children are told that by gaining good qualifications you will magically get a good job.

Of course grades are important and help our children to achieve their potential, but should children not also be taught about the fundamental essential skills that they will need in order to stand out from the crowd and gain their dream job?

Simple employability skills such as the ability to present to a crowd, write a CV, interview techniques and confidence building are some examples of what I  would love to see taught in schools regularly throughout the country as part of the curriculum. I myself remember attending my first job interview and I had no idea what to expect.

If children are fully aware about what is beyond their studies (high amount of competition when applying for jobs) then surely it will prepare them for the future and will in turn help bring unemployment levels down.

My blood donation experience

I’ve always thought about donating blood but I never really got around to doing it, I guess I kind of thought it might be painful so chickened out at the last moment. 

  
There is no doubt about it that donating blood saves lives and is a selfless and generous thing to do. It wasn’t until I had my daughter that I realised my blood type was rare and did some research about it. When I discovered that being O- meant that I was a universal blood donor I just has to sign up! 

When an emergency occurs and there is no time to check a patients blood type my blood is used. The strange thing about it is that ANYONE can receive my blood but if I need a transfusion I can ONLY receive O- blood. 

I had to wait six months after my daughter was born before I was able to donate and exactly six months after the birth of my daughter I sat myself in a donor chair for the first time.

I filled out a health questionnaire and was interviewed before they proceeded with the donation. All the staff at St George’s donor centre were very friendly offering me biscuits/crisps and they even watched Maysie for me whilst I donated.

The donation itself proved easier than I expected. I drank a glass of water before hand and was told to open and clench my fist throughout the procedure. I sat in the chair with the needle in my arm for about 5-10 minutes and it didn’t hurt a bit! The most painful thing was having the needle inserted which is just like having a regular blood test done. After the donation I felt absolutely fine I was worried I might be dizzy but I felt normal. I was told to drink another glass of water and they monitored me for 10 minutes before I could leave. 

Anyone that has gone through the pain of having a baby, piercing or tattoo will find it relatively painless to donate blood. As long as you haven’t had a piercing or tattoo in the last 12 months you can donate. If you find blood tests fine to do then donating blood is for you! It’s practically the same they just leave the needle in a bit longer. Regardless of your blood type you are helping people so I would urge everyone I know to sign up to become a donor.

To sign up or for more information visit: http://www.blood.co.uk

Photography

  
I’ve recently purchased the Nikon D3200 to take wonderful pictures of my daughter. I am an amateur photographer at the very least but it’s good to learn a new skill! I’ve figured out the basics so far, like zoom, flash and scenery options. The hope is to get professional like photos, which I can print and upload for free. The cost of having a photographer take pictures of Maysie is just as much as the camera itself, so I though why not? Wish me luck on my camera adventure 😝 

URGENT Missing Children Appeal from London

In the UK a child is reported missing every 3 minutes. 

Here are some children that have gone missing in the past three months from the London area.

Note: These children may look significantly different to these images due to age and stylistic differences

 Please call 116 000 immediately and quote the relevant reference number if you have any information regarding the whereabouts of any of these children. 

   

Charles Hendley 

Key details

Current age: 10

Missing for: 0 Years 3 Months 6 Days

 Reported missing: 15 Aug 2015

Reference number: 15-007164

  
Siena Hendley

Key details

Current age: 11 

Missing for: 0 Years 3 Months 6 Days 

Reported missing: 15 August 2015

Reference number: 15-007163

  
Imran Imran

Key details

Current age: 16

Missing for: 0 Years 3 Months 2 Days 

Reported missing: 19 Aug 2015

Reference number: 15-008367

  
Klevis Lika

Key details

Current age: 17

Missing for: 0 Years 3 Months 2 Days 

Reported missing: 19 Aug 2015

 Reference number: 15-006652

  
Mehmet Kolusari

Key details

Current age: 17

Missing for: 0 Years 2 Months 30 Days 

Reported missing: 22 Aug 2015

 Reference number: 15-000613

  
Maria X

Key details

Current age: 15

Missing for: 0 Years 2 Months 27 Days

Reported missing: 25 Aug 2015

Reference number: 15-006459

  
Basel Fehil

Key details

Current age: 17

Missing for: 0 Years 2 Months 2 Days 

Reported missing: 19 Sep 2015

Reference number: 15-007713

  
Deri Tomas-Kawumba

Key details

Current age: 16

Missing for: 0 Years 1 Month 22 Days 

Reported missing: 29 Sep 2015

Reference number: 15-007684

  
Tan Nyguen

Key details

Current age: 14

Missing for: 0 Years 1 Month 22 Days 

Reported missing: 29 Sep 2015

 Reference number: 15-007795

  
Key details

Current age: 16

Missing f0R Years 1 Month 14 Days 

Reported missing: 07 Oct 2015

Reference number: 15-009074

  
Billy O’Donaghue

Key details
Current age: 12
Missing for: 0 Years 1 Month 14 Days 
Reported missing: 07 Oct 2015
Reference number: 15-008776

  
Hoa Lovan

Key details

Current age: 15

Missing for: 0 Years 1 Month 10 Days 

Reported missing: 11 Oct 2015

Reference number: 15-008529

  
Anh Tranbuc

Key details

Current age: 16

Missing for: 0 Years 1 Month 10 Days 

Reported missing: 11 Oct 2015

Reference number: 15-008527

  
Aslan Azizi-Eskandari

Key details

Current age: 15

Missing for: 0 Years 1 Month 4 Days 

Reported missing: 17 Oct 2015

Reference number: 15-008608

  
Thien Minh Nguyen
Key details

Current age: 17

Missing for: 0 Years 1 Month 1 Days

Reported missing: 20 Oct 2015

Reference number: 15-008863

  
Priscila Simoes

Key details

Current age: 16

Missing for: Years 1 Month 0 Days 

Reported missing: 21 Oct 2015

Reference number: 15-009425

  
Leah Smith

Key details

Current age: 17

Missing for: 0 Years 1 Month 0 Days

Reported missing: 21 Oct 2015

Reference number: 15-007426

  
Elsaid Ulaj

Key details

Current age: 17

Missing for: 0 Years 0 Months 30 Days 

Reported missing: 22 Oct 2015

Reference number: 15-009329

  
Yassin Yusuf

Key details

Current age: 15

Missing for: 0 Years 0 Months 28 Days

 Reported missing: 24 Oct 2015

Reference number: 15-005161

  
Tyreek Campbell

Key details

Current age: 16

Missing for: 0 Years 0 Months 19 Days 

Reported missing: 02 Nov 2015

Reference number: 15-009292

  
Xhumali Skeja

Key details

Current age: 15
Missing for: 0 Years 0 Months 15 Days 
Reported missing: 06 Nov 2015
Reference number: 15-009529
  
Dontay Parris

Key details

Current age: 14

Missing for: 0 Years 0 Months 14 Days 

Reported missing: 07 Nov 2015

Reference number: 15-008551

  
Elijah Adeniji

Key details

Current age: 17

Missing for: 0 Years 0 Months 14 Days 

Reported  missing: 07 Nov 2015

Reference number: 15-009446

  
Charis kirk

Key details

Current age: 15

Missing for: 0 Years 0 Months 12 Days

Reported missing: 09 Nov 2015

Reference number: 15-009515

  
Amir Sharifi 

Key details

Current age: 14

Missing for: 0 Years 0 Months 10 Days

Reported missing: 11 Nov 2015

 Reference number: 15-009549

  
Michael Martin

Key details

Current age: 14

Missing for: 0 Years 0 Months 8 Days 

Reported missing: 13 Nov 2015

Reference Number: 15-009545

Rock a bye baby

So last night was another challenging moment for myself and Maysie. She would frequently wake crying and miserable. Her screams are so loud I’m sure the whole street must hear her! Drama queen is probably an understatement. 

  
I’m trying to be as gentle and kind as possible in order to soothe her when she’s upset. But there’s only so many times you can sing rock a bye baby throughout the night without feeling like a complete failure. I am hoping this is all down to teething (the dribbling, pulling of ear and  constantly chewing things).

Although, I am watching her every move like a hawk and being extra vigilant because on Tuesday when my mum was supposed to be looking after her. She put her in her highchair and didn’t strap her in properly so she fell straight onto the hard floor. That resulted in me rushing in, in a panic and taking her straight to A and E, where she stayed for four hours. At one point she fell into a deep sleep and I couldn’t wake her up so I panicked and ran to the nurse who checked her over and said she was ok. They discharged us after checking her and said to look out for vomiting and deliriousness. 

I’m pretty sure the way she is behaving at the moment isn’t down to her falling out of the highchair and is more to do with teething. But I will be monitoring her behaviour just to be safe. 

Fat babies

The more I travel to places where mums congregate the more I see chubby babies. Their fat little faces with Michelin man bodies and enough rolls to open a bakery!   Most of these pudding children are boys and yes boys are naturally larger than girls, but could this boyish obese baby epidemic be due to overfeeding instead? 

Weaning is a very important milestone in their development but when does enough, become enough? I recently saw one slender mum give her baby two bottles in the space of 2 hours and then baby food on top of that. When I asked her why she was feeding him so much, she said because he wants it and is hungry. To be frank that baby definitely did not look hungry (she could of done with a meal herself) and how did she know he wanted that much to eat? Did he psychically tell her? It’s not like he can speak now is it.

There’s also the argument that bottle feeding increases the risk of obesity and diabetes. So it’s no wonder a lot more babies are overweight nowadays when powdered milk is so easily available. This is because formula milk is a scientifically designed concoction of vitamins and minerals that make babies put on weight. As we all know, there is no substitute for breast milk (although advertisers may want you to believe differently)  because breastmilk is a natural living organism that contains antibodies which prevent/fight infection. Breastmilk also contains just the right amount of nutrients your baby needs – without overfeeding them! Hence why breastfed babies get sick less and are generally healthier. 

So a bottle fed baby, that is weaned early and given regular meals every few hours is more likely to be a podge I guess. Admittedly, I do think tubby tots are cute and if they grow out of their fat suits and there are no health problems later in life, then I suppose there’s no harm done.

But I am honestly slightly relieved that my daughter isn’t a large baby. It makes carrying her a lot easier and she is definitely a lot more active than babies double her size! She is reaching for things all the time and constantly looking around then wriggling. I am also a bit of a baby clothing hoarder and would be upset if she grew out of her cute outfits too quickly! So win win all round for the tiny tots methinks ☺️